Simply Me

I'm Jerry, a 20 year old CSUF student with a mercurial and quixotic mind. Keep up!

A Few Deal Breakers

I was watching Davey Wavey’s new video today and he mentioned a few deal breakers. So I came up with a list of my own, similar to his, but added a few.

Deal Breakers:

  • Negativity
  • Lack of motivation in life
  • Lack of culture
  • Dishonesty
  • Consistant low self-esteem
  • Into hardcore drugs
  • Wants an open relationship
  • Casual about one night stands
  • Lack of expression
  • Ignorance
  • Arrogance
  • Lack of interest
Just to name a few.

Before you finish reading this, please note that these are strictly my deal breakers. If yours are different, that’s your decision and that’s okay with me. 

Alone But Not Lonely

The majority of my day is spent at school or work. When I do have free time, I am seeing my friends. Or I’m eating or sleeping. Or if none of those apply, I’m just relaxing, which isn’t that often.

Point of this post? I’ve been happily single and not looking for someone these past few months, nearly half a year. I didn’t even want to date. But lately, it’s on my mind more than it used to be.

But why? Is it seeing more and more of my friends getting into relationships? Is it because I now have some options? Regardless, I’m feeling this way and it’s annoying me and I’m not too fond of it.

But because I can’t help how I feel, I’m dealing with it & although I don’t normally give into my feelings, I’m giving into my feelings. Ha.

I asked my friend to set something up with a friend of his. And he’s cute. That’s about all I know about him haha. So we’ll see if this even happens. If not, that’s life.