Just for today I will be happy. This assumes what Abraham Lincoln said is true: ‘Most folks are about as happy as they make their mind up to be.’ Happiness comes from within; it is not a matter of externals.
Just for today I will try to adjust myself to what is; not try…
believing that someone actually finds you attractive.
I’ve got a pretty low self-esteem but I don’t show it or think about it often at all. But when I do, it’s deadly. I’m trying to overcome it but it doesn’t happen over night. And growing up with this rather low self-esteem, it’s extremely difficult to believe that someone finds you attractive.
It’s even more difficult to believe that someone I find attractive, also finds me attractive.
Although it may be true, I can’t help but mumble to myself “No, this can’t be true. This can’t be right.”
Hi! I followed ur blog coz i thought u were cute in ur profile pic.
I just wanna ask u, do /did u hav a boyfriend? What was ur first one like? How did it happen?
Also, how did u come out of d closet? tnx
Hey Anonymous! Thank you! :)
I do not have a boyfriend at the time. I wish I did although I am relatively content with my life as a single man. My first boyfriend? Well he was kind of a jerk. It was both of our first relationships with another man but he kept making rather rude and inappropriate sexual innuendos towards my friends. Obviously, we’re broken up now and thank god that he is out of my life.
How we got together… this was my sophomore year in high school and he was already out. I was not. I am disappointed to say that I went out with him simply because he was the only other gay guy I knew. I know better now. I’m not desperate but you gotta understand it’s not easy when you feel like you’re the only one in the world.
I came out during my sophomore year because of this boyfriend actually. Sadly enough, he said to me “We can’t go out anymore if you don’t come out” so I pretty much had to come out if I wanted to continue being with him. Like I said, I was rather desperate.
As of now, I am out to everyone but my mom & dad and my aunts & uncles. My cousins know and my brother knows too. Thankfully, they’re all very supportive about it. :)
Nobody’s perfect, because perfection is subjective. Don’t try to please everyone, because that’s impossible. You may be perfect to one person, but you can never please everyone. It’s not good to be a people pleaser anyways. Don’t try to be someone you’re not. Don’t try to gain an image of what isn’t you. Be yourself, a cliche. But more so, love yourself.
It’s easier to live in somebody that’s comforting and warm though, even if it is a total lie.
For the original post, this is totally to my ex. You bastard. To basu-san, it may be easier but you are by no means happier. Trust me on this one.
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Baby I know who you are and every time I think of you without clothes on, I can’t help but do just that.